Sorry for not updating
Yesterday I was running all over the city doing errands. I got my shot at the doctors, then went and deposited some money at the bank and then to BJ's (like Costco) and got some sushi for Geo and I. He was sleeping when I got home so I just put it in the fridge without letting him know. When it was time for dinner and he was getting his nightly soda he found it in the fridge and was so happy. He even gave me a big hug and kiss. He has been a lot better with his anger issues and I'm happy. I'm not living in fear now.
There is one thing today that got to me. Geo has known this woman, Heather, for 5 years, and they talk all the time and she would send him (and sometimes me) gifts. Mostly small things like a couple Blu-rays. Today Geo got a package from her- a new computer! I have been trying my hardest to not be jealous of her, but it's hard. I know Geo isn't going to leave me for her... if he was going to, it would have been a long time ago. But just such an expensive gift for no reason... just makes me wonder.
There is one thing today that got to me. Geo has known this woman, Heather, for 5 years, and they talk all the time and she would send him (and sometimes me) gifts. Mostly small things like a couple Blu-rays. Today Geo got a package from her- a new computer! I have been trying my hardest to not be jealous of her, but it's hard. I know Geo isn't going to leave me for her... if he was going to, it would have been a long time ago. But just such an expensive gift for no reason... just makes me wonder.
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hmmm I think you should talk to Geo and maybe even Heather as well about how you feel about this. I would feel the same way as you if I were in your shoes xx.
I am an incredibly jealous + paranoiac person so I am sure I would suffer if I had to tolerate such a friendship. Fortunately you are stronger but still it must be hard.
I would be going nutty and be worried. a gift of a computer is huge and I think an honest conversation with geo about how you feel would be a good thing to do. there is nothing wrong with talking about your feelings, it is healthy and necessary. many bhugss
Is Geo going to keep the computer?
Yes it is a expensive gift and it would not sit well with me either. I think any gift no matter the cost would upset me and cause concern. How would Geo feel it it were you receiving gifts from another man?
yeah, its odd. are they related or anything? or did it happen to be on sale or hot?
when i go to the hope store, i pick up things for a LOT of people, like 2 or 3 usually and for no reason and no pattern. but never something like a computer. the closest i did to that is a HUGE wool rug that i didn\'t want anymore. is the computer new?
xxoo
the computer is refurbished and Heather used her tax return money to buy it for him. I just see it as excess.
DId heather send any kind of card stating the purpose for such a big gift?It was very thoughtful. I understand why you feel the way you do. ;).