Some one I trusted

Some on I trusted kicked me when I was down. I was good to them. They lied to me and lied about me. It's not the first time it's happened, makes me really wonder about my ability to judge who to trust. It hurts. It sucks. And there's nothing I can do about it.

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billwfriend
billwfriend

so sorry for the breach of trust....wow so what next?
heretic
heretic

I move on and be glad that person is out of my life.
deleted_user
deleted_user

I remember when my best friend dumped me the day I was planning to tell her I was pregnant and wanted her to be the Godmother. She was overweight and jealous of my marriage and my life. She lost weight and got mad at me because her life didn\'t change as she thought it should. It hurt me so deeply. Eventually she wrote me to try to patch things up but I just couldn\'t do it. I wished her well but never picked up on the invite to lunch. I think I really loved her as a sister and to this day it still hurts.
deleted_user
deleted_user

People will burn you in life. That\'s just a fact. It\'s especially hard on sensitive people with big, huge hearts. I know that I\'ve been burned and hurt. I\'m a shy and standoffish person by nature and it just makes me close up more and more. Then, I wonder why I\'m alone and lonely. Part of the answer is me and how I react to being burned and rejected.

I think that it\'s great that you\'ve moved on. Some people, you just don\'t need in your life. You are a good, sensitive, and caring person who deserves good people and good friends in your life. Just don\'t let what happened with this one person cause you to completely close up like I do or sully other prospective friendships and relationships like I do. What was is not what is and what is is not what\'s going to be.

Big, big hugs my friend.
BesideStillWaters
BesideStillWaters

Hi Heretic,
Just always remember that you are the good person/friend etc. and that the one who kicked you when you were down, is not, I repeat is not worth having in your life. I had someone I cared about and thought that they would be there for me as I had always been for them, but nope it just didn\'t work that way. I am better off knowing that they aren\'t worth now than later when I may have needed them in an emergency. People can be shallow, self-serving and just plain selfish, personally I don\'t want that dirt in my life ever again. Still, it does hurt and really sucks when someone lets you down. It shows you have feelings and they don\'t.