socializing, dealing with myself

socializing with people at work, dealing with myself and how i react - and my fatigue when I get social


and also I get nervous when I talk to my therapist at times.


I don't like the way I can get, while socializing and I feel a great need during those times to


'keep a lid' on myself and reactions and actions. I guess we all can feel that way


at times - and also when things seem to have barbed moments with others -


maybe they are fatigued? - maybe they have troubles? - and why the heck does everyone have to


be so perfect?? I need to tell that to moi as well!



starting my weekend now! Namaste fellows :)

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MoobbusT
MoobbusT

I needed to read this today. Thanks marco. I looked at some people on facebook from school where they put on the appearance of a perfect life. I have a saying I like to use I will put in today's chat I will be having during my DS time today. Cheers mate
malibumark
malibumark

thanks Moobb!
arfie
arfie

Personally, I find the flaws more interesting that the perfections. Perfection is just plain boring.
SensitiveHoboLady
SensitiveHoboLady

Why do we beat ourselves up so much? I hope you have a marvelous weekend Marky! Have you tried taking blue outside at all? Is he an indoor cat? I just ordered a harness to try and take Bella for walks on the catwalk haha.
malibumark
malibumark

my brother got me a cat harness to take Blue out for my birthday. Blue does NOT like when I try to put it on him LOL.
Strangely - Blue likes to lick it - but nothing else. I have it on my kitchen table and Blue jumps onto it - and licks the harness...I have no idea why !LOL.
Thanks Sensitive, thanks Arfie!

peace for a good weekend!
arfie
arfie

I would let him lick it a day or three and try putting it on again.

That neighbor who walked his cat was nothing shy of adorable. The cat, too.