so lost...

Im so confused. For the last three days he has been texting me and talking to me like nothing has changed. Today he tells me that he is going to wait on getting the paper work until we are in a better place, what does that mean? I don't want to get my hopes up because if it means nothing then I will just get hurt again. Today I signed the lease on my own place, because no matter what happens I can't sit around and wait. I want so badly to be with my husband and make it work and figure out where we went wrong and make us stronger and better. I wish he felt that way and that our separation was just that and nothing final. That he could just take some time and realize that our family isn't something you should just throw away. He has hurt me so badly by pushing me away and telling me that he doesn't think that we are compatible and all I want is to prove him wrong and show him that if you love someone and you are committed then you can make it work.
I am so torn right now, I don't know what to believe or what to do. All I know is I hate this and don't want to go through this anymore.