So, I am an idiot and forgot this:

I am married. I am a jerk and do not deserve friends. I am just stupid enough to never mention her. So, there ya go. And, I'm not really allowed to talk to any girls on here now (unless under certain limits I guess). Take care. Thanks for reading.
 
`Jak

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charliegirl29
charliegirl29

ah well I am married too so The Mrs really does not have to worry about me. take care
jzrozzn8706
jzrozzn8706

thanks man.
deleted_user
deleted_user

Im sorry. You are a very intelligent person and give great advice with all persons point of veiw in mind so it will be sad for you not to be able to help with females. You know my story so I understand where she is coming from to get upset. Its just a scary thing especially if there is insecurity there or she has been done wrong in the past. That baggage just travels with us in life. I just wanted you to know your message back to me and advice helped me alot when i needed it. Im down but im doing ok, So thanks. Right now work on your marriage and get an understanding between you two. Cheer up and maybe I will see you on able to talk again, Good Luck, Amber
solitudeisnear
solitudeisnear

I am in relationship too. when I get friend requests from other guys I truly hope thier not looking for a girlfriend cause I\'m not interested. I know where she comes from and the insecurities and I know I have them too, but you really need to work on trusting and believing in one another and be open and communicate your fears thoughts and everything really. I hope she can get peace and allow this site to help you. there are a lot of good people and people who you can relate to and this can be an important part of acceptance. take care and see you around I hope.
deleted_user
deleted_user

More than half of america looks the other way that\'s why we are in the shape we are. No longer are the days winning a woman over for life and earning her complete devotion because both start looking elsewhere to find what they are not getting at home. And to solitude?..yeah guys probably do get on these sites trying to fill some kind of emptiness but many of the women here as well I notice love to put erotic and beautiful photo\'s of themselves and then turn around and say \"I\'m just looking for friendship\". To me those women are called good old fashioned teases and to me it makes them less attractive. I doubt many of the female profiles here have any more truth than the males profiles IMO. It goes both ways so don\'t make it sound like every guy on this site is instantly looking for a life companion.