So confused. .. not sure what to make of this all...
Somtimes you have such a great day, and at the end of it your left with so many voices in your head telling you its not what it appears.
My gf came over today and we had a wonderful time. We havent seen each other in almost two weeks. before that we had seen each other 3 weekends in a row. Which was great. but i think we needed the break. Today, it was like we couldnt keep our hands off of each other.
Anyways, we went to eat came home back and watched a movie. The Diaries of Annie Lister. Quite interesting. It gave us a lot to talk abouit. And thats what I am having doubts about now. She asked in a playful way for me to marry her. which isnt the first time. She was asking if I liked rings and which I liked better, gold or silver. And well about having kids. Anyways, all positive talks. But here I am with voices in my head again telling me. Its all talk. Nothing more.
Our relationship has been up and down. And I am just so confused as to what to think.
My gf came over today and we had a wonderful time. We havent seen each other in almost two weeks. before that we had seen each other 3 weekends in a row. Which was great. but i think we needed the break. Today, it was like we couldnt keep our hands off of each other.
Anyways, we went to eat came home back and watched a movie. The Diaries of Annie Lister. Quite interesting. It gave us a lot to talk abouit. And thats what I am having doubts about now. She asked in a playful way for me to marry her. which isnt the first time. She was asking if I liked rings and which I liked better, gold or silver. And well about having kids. Anyways, all positive talks. But here I am with voices in my head again telling me. Its all talk. Nothing more.
Our relationship has been up and down. And I am just so confused as to what to think.
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What is that you really want out of this relationship? Do you want to marry this lady? Can you see co-parenting with her? Is the relationship at that stage that is can move forward in a healthy manor? YES, then break out the calender and set a date but... if you have any doubts as to your or her commitment, talking is the best remedy.... ask her what she really wants... share with her what you really want... at this point. Share with her that you hear what she is saying, and need to know what her true intentions are? Communication is sticky but... is the key to a loving and nurturing long-lasting relationship.... ask questions... ask them often... it is okay to be scared, and even a little confused.... getting clarity will stregthen you and your relationship...
I am truly confused. I ahave to do alot to feel comfy with myself and this relationship.