slipping a bit - but maybe I can learn from it

I was at work earlier today...did my thing and what the work required.


More and more I am seeing each day with folks at work as a way to learn to 


get along. Some people want to be friends, some people don't. You connect with some


and you don't connect with others - and for the most part people are reasonable at getting along


even with these kinds of differences...Not everyone can get along and I can move together and separate


with better ableness when working with all. I embrace myself. :) hehe.



I came home from work and the activity of work turned it's focus on me and my empty day.


I do have to take care of my brother's dog.. and that's a gift....


and part of me knows I have to consider the tools in my toolbox


in a way to consider how I cope when I am alone and start feel a certain way. It's like I want to emmerse in a world


of comfort because alone I start to feel sad - I think maybe if I keep with others, rather than apart from them - even though there's agitation with others at times - I feel I might be better off embracing the responsibility - Maybe I should get a dog or a cat. I don't like the poop and hair that comes with it - but bet it's like that universally to an extent.


So, will I park it, in front of the TV and have that be my babsitter and mental/psychological jacuzzi for the day?


I think in a little while I will kick my butt out the door and buy my charge Nina a doggie toy.


I felt myself slipping there for a bit at the prospect of sinking into my life here at home alone after work but 


after writing this, I feel better. Indeed another tool from my tool box. :) I hope you guys are having a good day!!!!

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beckyp
beckyp

Hope you have a good day too.
Community LeaderSunCloudJD
SunCloudJD

Big hug for you sweetie..... I think you see work relationships in a really healthy way!!!.... Good for you getting up and out everyday to work

I hope that you have a good time babysitting your niece.....smile..... Poop and hair always goes along with the critters but it's worth it IMHO

I hope Nina enjoys her new top.... Big squishy hug LC.....xo
malibumark
malibumark

thanks Jan!!!! Thanks Becky!!!