sick of it

ddmom finally gets unsupervised yesterday. I take the kids over there for the babies first overnight since august. do you think ddmom would be thrilled, and have them spend the night at her house, for the first time ever? Her kids in her house? NO!!! She takes them to her boyfriends aunts house and they are spending the night over there.
Why did I buy a crib for her house? Why does she get low income housing costing next to nothing, and still cant have enough sence to take her kids home and put them to bed at a reasonable time. GS has soccer practice at 10AM Why cant she just do the right thing by her kids and stop acting like an idiot. a schoolgirl spending the night at her friends house with her 2 dollies. I Am Pissed
I tell her about it on the phone, I let her have it.
HEr BOYFRIEND COMES TO MY DOOR TO DISCUSS IT!!!!
I tell him he hasnt been through 3 years of this with her, and I give him everything thats on my mind, and tell him she is irresponsible and not putting her kids first. AGAIN. He leaves.
I am still pissed