She Actually Didnt Call- Alex

So I waited till the next day to call Alex because I was awaiting for her to call me back and leave me a message to let me know whats up and that she was thinking about me... I called her later the next day, like at 8pm, and here's how it goes: Krissy: Hey whats up?? Alex: Hey! Krissy: So I saw you called me yesterday, whats up?! Alex: OH! I DIDNT MEAN TO CALL YOU. MY PHONE JUST CALLED YOU ON ITS OWN AND WHEN I WENT IN MY PURSE TO GET IT I SEEN IT DIALED YOUR NUMBER. SO I JUST HUNG UP. I was so fuckin pist!! Ok, I may be late to pick her up sometimes, I may leave her hanging without a call to let her know what the plans are, I may even be sprung on dick and not call her for 2 weeks BUT I DONT EVER NOT CALL HER. I know I have some things I need to work on like my follow up skills. I needed to work on that since like yesterday. If I wasnt a good friend I wouldnt work on it at all. Of course Im doing it for me first because thats just not a good quality to have, but when I do it for me my environment would get the same. Throughout the past month or two I call her just to say whats up. I always call more than twice a week and then I just stopped because I seen she wasnt making an effort to call me which I thought was weird. She is a hypocite too because now that she has this new dick around she doesnt even call me she is just sprung on it. When I had a boyfriend I was sprung on she was pissed at me for not calling her!!  To be honest, I am not the type of friend who cares if you call or not. We can not talk for 2 weeks and then call each other and it will be cool. What I care about is that I am actually trying to keep in touch and no effort is being made on her part to do the same. The hypocracy is just funny to me. I dont care much for that.  I feel she is doing this to teach me a lesson. I am not 6 years old!!! I am a 23 year old adult woman and if there is a problem then come holler at me. If you have hollered at me and there are no results but you do see some progress well then honey Rome wasnt built in a day!! As long as you see I am heading in the right direction then what the fuck do you want from me??!! I was then told by someone else that maybe a lot of her friends treat her this way and she just doesnt want to get to close to you because she thinks you might hurt her like her other friends do. I thought about that for a second and said WELL MAYBE SHE SHOULD PICK FRIENDS THAT DONT HAVE PROBLEMS AND ARE EYE LEVEL WITH HER. If you know I am going through something and I am trying to change dont fucking act like you dont care. You happen to stay knowing I have these issues so aparently you do care to some extent so dont try to cover yourself with a hard candy shell. I see that soft chocolate inside... Phew....ANYWAYS....I decided not to speak to her about my recovery process. I cant be a better friend if I am not a better person inside you know?? We are just going to be in the same whirl wind of drama and I am trying to steer clear of all drama causing people in my life for the sake of my recovery and my sanity jeeeez.... I was about to second guess myself and think more on the positive side but I just want to feel what I feel and not think it might be something else. I know whats going on. Bottom line is: I try  to reach out and my hand gets slapped. Thats what I feel I am sticking to that and I am not calling her....PERIOD!!