Sexually Transmitted Diseases
I feel so disgusted. There are two reasons why my H is the only man I have ever slept with. Number one is because I always believed in being pure to ones mate, and I knew that my virginity was the biggest gift I could give to the man I intended to spend the rest of my life with. Number two, I adamantly never wanted to contract an STD. Never. Yet, this morning, my test results came in the mail It was positive for Herpes Simplex 2. I have no words to say. Only tears to shed. I am in such disbelief. No anger, no hatred...just shocked. I intend to call the OW tonight, as I feel that although my H contracted this from her, she has a right to know. Just shock. I am just sick with shock.
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I am so sorry - I just wanted to reach out and give you some support...I know there are so many mixed emotions you will be facing in addition to all of the emotional mess you are already facing....hang in there....take care of yourself...this is not your fault!!!!
Oh I am so sorry to hear that you are going through this. You deserve waaay better but I am sure you have heard this so many times. When I saw your picture I thought \"Oh she\'s so pretty and her retarded husband is screwing aroung. What an asshole\". It is not fair and it is not right. He wronged you in so many ways then to add insult to injury he gives you STD. I hope you make the decision that is not only best for your 3 kids but also best for you. Do not forget yourself and do not take yourself out of the equation when you decide whether to stay or leave this man. I know it is so easy for others to say \"If that were me, I\'d leave his sorry ass\". Yeah right! Until you have been trapped in an abusive relationship do you realize how hard it is to get out. Many times you feel trapped...like there\'s no way out. So hang in there and TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF AND YOUR NEEDS TOO!