separate lives

im upstairs on my computer.  hes downstairs.  i spent dinner and the car ride chatting on my phone with someone else.  i didnt ignore him but i didnt ignore the phone.  i was probably being rude.  didnt think of it then but that is rude 2 b out with someone and be on the phone.  he wasnt talking so i guess i thought it was ok.  & i was chatting not talking.  anyway seems we r on our way 2 having separate lives.  hubby seems comfortable with that.  im all 4 some time apart but i think there shd b some 2gether.  maybe we can b separate and stay married and give him some time 2 get aclimated 2 married life?  and then maybe intimacy will b possible.  in the meantime what do i do 2 satisfy my desire 4 intimacy?