sensible

I think when I've thought in the past about what to do with my day or what to do 

with my future goals, I've often felt insecure and like I know others' lives are much

grander than mine. A timid 'half person' here...but imagining what to do with my life

and maybe having an 'image in mind' is half the battle...

How do I guide myself with my goals in a way that's grounded?

I am so grateful for what I have in my life - and future goals may come to mind..

I think what can guide me and console me along the way is that "Are these goals

well thought out? Are you taking care to tie up the loose ends? Are you being self responsible?"

I guess in the course of a day we're all busy taking care of our lives - why shouldn't future goals

be about that as well? And if you're taking care of your goals and future - in a sensible way

there's no harm in that... and if asked to defend yourself why there's nothing to hard to defend

something so reasonable.