ive been getting headaches and stomach aches. heart palpatations. dizziness at times. im stressed. i bought some books. why men cheat and after the affair. im trying 2 give myself something constructive 2 do. better than masturbating or fussing at my husband. i cant b over this so soon. it still comes 2 mind. what am i supposed 2 do 2 not lose my mind?