I dont know what to do, i just got done crying my eyes out not because i want to keep my husband (who is worried about us spliting because he doesnt know how I will take it) but because i dont know who i am.  i have never been single. from highschool until now i have always had someone.  and its not a bad thing to be single, i look foward to that but i dont want to move back home the whole splitting of stuff and financial situation plus i dont have anything.  i dont have this career i worked for and love, i dont have strong ground to stand on.  i feel as if i dont even want to think of a new plan, or even think of  a plan, i just want to sleep and not worry about it.