Say what?

My mom called me to tell me that my cousin in jail is pregnant and will be having her baby in feb. and she has to turn the baby over to the foster care system or family member. My aunt immediately thought of us and called my mom who called me! Of course we said yes! So we have to wait and see what my cousin wants! I don't know or don't think I would keep the baby. I want to keep a open mind that we are caring for the child until the mom comes back. The hardest part to me is that the child will be with us from birth And will be with us for at least a year! I guess I will wait and take things as it comes! God only knows the plan!

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GirlAtHeart
GirlAtHeart

Wow! What a surprise. I think you are a generous and caring person to do that. Have you spoken with your cousin to get feedback? What about the father? If your cousin isn\'t capable of raising this baby I sincerely hope her heart opens to the idea of letting you adopt it.
deleted_user
deleted_user

What a great opportunity for you!! I hope everything works out in your favor!
CaliCutie81
CaliCutie81

Wow what an incredible opportunity! I\'ll be praying for you and your fam as you navigate and figure this all out! ((Hugs))
ktk7779413
ktk7779413

Wow! God only knows, is right! You are an amazing person!
cidekmat
cidekmat

wow that is an amazing chance. I am glad you are willing to help out, I really hope this is a good sign of things to come...
whimsicalfool
whimsicalfool

That is surprising, but no matter what, this child will benefit from growing up with a family member who cares and truly invests in his or her development. This is the best case scenario for everyone! Good luck to you, and god bless for having such an open heart!
deleted_user
deleted_user

Wow! That\'s amazing :-)
Kelly0713
Kelly0713

Wow! This could be a truly life changing and amazing opportunity!
leciag
leciag

Wow...what news. I understand your hesitation with the whole thing but I think it\'s a great thing...but definitely go in with an open mind!! Hugs and prayers!!
RoxyD
RoxyD

Wow, Feb is so close. I can understand your worries and hope you can get a bettee idea of how things will work in the long run before the baby comes.
Good luck.
AlicatG
AlicatG

Sounds like a great opportunity to be big in a little persons life. Even better, the babes is family so even if your cousin was able to have custody back down the road, you could keep a special relationship.. The path to parenthood isn\'t always s straight one, for sure!
HaveFaith24
HaveFaith24

Wow! How awesome would this be??!!! :-)
HopefulinNYC
HopefulinNYC

What an amazing call and gift! And they say opportunity doesn\'t just call like that! ;)
PolkaDotGirl
PolkaDotGirl

Aaaw how exciting!
deleted_user
deleted_user

Wow, how exciting. Such a blessing to be able to help. I hope that all works out and you never know what other doors may be opened with this opportunity.