Let me add to that: I\'m 31 and still haven\'t had sex. I feel so awful. I want to experience it so badly, and whenever I hear about others\' sexual experiences, even indirectly, it hurts really, really badly. It just reminds me of what I have missed in my life. I feel so excluded.
Remember that you are so much more than who you have or have not had sex with. Instead of searching for only a woman who is also a virgin, maybe you could just focus on a woman who will love you for who you are, whether she is a virgin or not. The guy I am seeing now is divorced and has two kids (definitely not a virgin!), and he respects that I want to stay a virgin until marriage. I never would have thought that I would fall for a guy who had already been married and had kids, but it happened!
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Let me add to that: I\'m 31 and still haven\'t had sex. I feel so awful. I want to experience it so badly, and whenever I hear about others\' sexual experiences, even indirectly, it hurts really, really badly. It just reminds me of what I have missed in my life. I feel so excluded.
Remember that you are so much more than who you have or have not had sex with. Instead of searching for only a woman who is also a virgin, maybe you could just focus on a woman who will love you for who you are, whether she is a virgin or not. The guy I am seeing now is divorced and has two kids (definitely not a virgin!), and he respects that I want to stay a virgin until marriage. I never would have thought that I would fall for a guy who had already been married and had kids, but it happened!