Saturday June 12/10

I will be 60 in 45 minutes.
Went to our daughters tonight, I thought for a bbq, but both girls had arranged a surprise party for my 60th birthday. Another first, no beloved hubby Pat to share it with me. I had a wonderful time, not a late night, but surrounded by my family and my Red Hat friends, what could be better? Other than the obvious. I work tomorrow. Crying now, but that's ok.

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deleted_user
deleted_user

HAPPY BIRTHDAY WENDY!! I\'m sure that Pat is with you now wishing a beloved Happy Birthday as well, he will always be with.
DianeMTB
DianeMTB

Happy Belated Birthday Wendy. I am sure Pat is looking at you and smiling. It is good to have friends and family. Congratulations at being 60 years of age. How do you feel? I never feel any older even though the calendar says I am one year older. Who cares about age anymore? My Smokey died at 60. He would have been 61 this year. You would like your Pat and I would like my Smokey back in my life but we know that is not going to happen. I am lonely and hope I do not make any more mistakes in my life. Sometimes loneliness drives us to make stupid mistakes. I don\'t know what I am going to do. I don\'t like living alone. It sucks. How are you coping with living alone? It sucks. I can go out and have fun with my friends/family but eventually I come home to an empty apartment alone which sucks. How did you and Pat meet? I like finding this about couples even widows or widowers. From Diane
deleted_user
deleted_user

How great that you fam and friends cared ................you are loved and cherished....................and 60..............lol................time for you . Hard adaptation of life without but wqhile we are here , there must be some reason................are you feeling the presence of your husband at all>