Same Problems, only worse

Spouse overdrew her checking account and is livid.  I am convinced she is unbalanced, went from happy to dreadful within 30 min.  I do not have money coming in fast enough and continue to pound my chest dreadfully hard to kill myself.  Made the wrong career choice in going independent.  Death would be welcome right now.  If there was a way to do it painless, would gladly opt out of this miserable life.  Total failure here. 

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Have you considered a divorce? You can get another wife, ((BUT)) YOU can never have another life.I don\'t know why this problem makes you a TOTAL FAILURE,sometimes,u just have to either change the rules (sounds like she makes them)or tell her you have tried enough to make it work,because you know it takes 2,don\'t forget that,she need\'s a reality check,maybe.I did not read journal,many friends,lol,especially at my age.Just so you know I am only going by the journal entry now.I have a feeling she may be the one that just wanted an expensive gift that was not affordable,maybe it is someone else,if so you know you are not alone.$$$$$$$$$$ is always a big problem with most,here too,but we have to do what we have to do,I settle for what we can afford,and appreciate that,some just don\'t.Do what is best for you,and just know that someday things will work out,it just takes time.I really wish the best for you,with respect,sincerely, love ya lot\'s,connie xxxxxxxxxxx