Same day a coupel hours later
Brother calls again. I am just getting food to eat out of the microwave, so it takes me a few rings before I answer.
Me- Hello
Keith- Its me Keith.
Me- What?
Keith, rasing his voice- Can you hear me?
ME, a little louder because I figure he is having some kind of phone problem- What?
Keith, now near yelling- Can you hear me?
Me, also louder, I said, 'What'.
Keith- Why are you giving me attutude?
Me- I'm not, I jsut siad, 'What."
Keith- Why are you grumpy with me?
Me- I only siad, 'What.'
Keith- you started the cal ykelling at me.
Me- I'm not yelling, but maybe I am grumpy. (Now Yelling) You have called me four times today. I was just sitting down to eat.
Keith- Iwas just calling to tell you tht the nurse gave Alisa a bath so you dont have to ask them to do it.
(That is what the last cal was about, He was saying she needed a bath and for me to make sure the nurses gave her oen when I come there. This was again him seeing soemthign needing to be done and aksing me to do it whenhe is actually there and could do it.)
Me- ok.
He said something else, I thin insulting but I dindt' pick it up calling me anasshole or whatever and hung up.
so, I'm thinking he cals it donest go thru and calls back and blames me then calls a third time and tells me about the bath situation. then he solves the bath situatoin which means he never had to make the first two calls. Then calls me to say he solved the bath situation. If he had ony taken the repsonisbility to do whta needed to be done himself at first, non eof the last three calls would have been needed. The last one want needed anyway since Iwould have found her not smeling and wound't have bothered the nurses about bathing her.
Is it just me? I know I'm short with him, but is it me, or do I have cause to be?
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