Roy Sick

So damn mad!  Took Roy to Pulmonoligst yesterday, he was already coming down with a bad cold/sinus infection.  So glad we went.  Doc says all okay, took the sudafed like he said, an hour and a half latter Roy starts throwing up.  His mom wants to pick him up at my house I offer to keep him so grandma, where he is staying, will get some sleep, grandma gets pissy.  When they pick him, grandma can't get off the damn cel phone to even let me talk to his mother.
From what another family member tells me Roy was up and down all night.  I texted him at 6:30 found out he is not going to school.  Still no word from mom or grandma.  Finally at 7 I text mom. 
WTF! I take the kids to doctors, get meds, take to school, but I can only be in tehir lives so far!  I already took an ativan to try and keep my cool. But I am mad.