Responsibility is NOT A Luxury-Just A Massive Rant
Let's lay down a disclaimer. I know she is JUST my sister, and I know it's her life and I can't do anything but let her make her own mistakes, but that doesn't mean I'm not LIVID!
My little sister seems to think priorities and responsibilities are just for other people. I`m getting really tired of how she acts and I`m so done with other people talking about her all over our damn city.
Awhile ago she got with this guy, nobody really liked him, but she did so we kept our lips shut. After a few months we discovered he was going to trial for a charge to decide on a jail time sentence. But neither would tell us what it was for. So in the mean time his dad buys them a trailer and puts it in my sisters name (Its an owner operated trailer park, can`t live there if you aren`t an owner) since his son is going to jail. While they lived there we found out he was being sentenced on a CHILD PORNOGRAPHY charge! She HAS a son! Story is he had sex with his gf when she was a few months under eighteen and he was nineteen...taped it on his phone, broke up, and at a party his phone and the video got passed around with out his knowledge. Feasable, but knowing the guy the passing around was well to his knowledge.
So he goes to jail. The deal was that his dad bought the trailer out flat and they paid him a monthly rent to pay it off. Well, once her bf was in jail she started cheating on him with her current man. Eventually she sent him a facebook message (that he wouldn`t get until release or when he talked to whoever was checking his fbook) saying it was over and she stopped paying his dad money. Since the trailer is in her name there is NOTHING his dad can do. Dude was a dirtbag, but she screwed his dad out of over 20 000 bucks!
So fast forward and she is still with J(man she cheated with) and it`s been almost a year. They have a ZOO in the trailer. There is three dogs (two pit bulls and a heeler), two snakes, two cats, pirahnas, other fish and then the three of them. It`s a two bedroom trailer.
My sister has wanted to be a breeder for quite some time. But instead of going to school, learning about it, saving and buying a farm or acerage that would fit kennels, she backyard breeds. She tried to breed her pittys when the female was under a year but it didn`t take (THANK GOD). And her male pitty is even younger then the female. Plus, her and J both work ten hours a day so the dogs are kenneled that long. The male pitty has serious issues. He`s super destructive, he hurts himself and destroys kennels trying to escape. He is aggressive in play with the other dogs and has to be muzzled when they are out. Her form of training is screaming at them.
So what does she do yesterday?? SHE SPENDS 500 ON A FULL GROWN GREAT DANE!! Because she can breed her in the spring don't you know? And ask ridiculous amounts of cash for unpapered pups.
Plus, I find out her new 'do, the extensions, perm and dye job....cost 800! And she is putting the trailer up as collateral to get a 5000 loan. She spent 1300 in the last month on shit. She could just not make stupid spending decisions and have that 5000 saved in four months!
She was whining they have no food. Well, I'm sure feeding your son is more important then a hair job or a dog! And she doesn't take her kid anywhere because that would mean leaving the dogs kenneled for even longer. So her son pays for it all.
And right now the govt gives her 400 a month to pay me for child care. I watched my nephew 150 hours last month. Once she files taxes that amount WILL drop, but she better not think she can get away with paying me less. 500 is my usual rate, I cut her a deal at 400 because at the time she really couldn't afford the extra 100 out of pocket.
Phew, just a BIG rant since I'm incredibly angry about it all and have no one to rant to!
My little sister seems to think priorities and responsibilities are just for other people. I`m getting really tired of how she acts and I`m so done with other people talking about her all over our damn city.
Awhile ago she got with this guy, nobody really liked him, but she did so we kept our lips shut. After a few months we discovered he was going to trial for a charge to decide on a jail time sentence. But neither would tell us what it was for. So in the mean time his dad buys them a trailer and puts it in my sisters name (Its an owner operated trailer park, can`t live there if you aren`t an owner) since his son is going to jail. While they lived there we found out he was being sentenced on a CHILD PORNOGRAPHY charge! She HAS a son! Story is he had sex with his gf when she was a few months under eighteen and he was nineteen...taped it on his phone, broke up, and at a party his phone and the video got passed around with out his knowledge. Feasable, but knowing the guy the passing around was well to his knowledge.
So he goes to jail. The deal was that his dad bought the trailer out flat and they paid him a monthly rent to pay it off. Well, once her bf was in jail she started cheating on him with her current man. Eventually she sent him a facebook message (that he wouldn`t get until release or when he talked to whoever was checking his fbook) saying it was over and she stopped paying his dad money. Since the trailer is in her name there is NOTHING his dad can do. Dude was a dirtbag, but she screwed his dad out of over 20 000 bucks!
So fast forward and she is still with J(man she cheated with) and it`s been almost a year. They have a ZOO in the trailer. There is three dogs (two pit bulls and a heeler), two snakes, two cats, pirahnas, other fish and then the three of them. It`s a two bedroom trailer.
My sister has wanted to be a breeder for quite some time. But instead of going to school, learning about it, saving and buying a farm or acerage that would fit kennels, she backyard breeds. She tried to breed her pittys when the female was under a year but it didn`t take (THANK GOD). And her male pitty is even younger then the female. Plus, her and J both work ten hours a day so the dogs are kenneled that long. The male pitty has serious issues. He`s super destructive, he hurts himself and destroys kennels trying to escape. He is aggressive in play with the other dogs and has to be muzzled when they are out. Her form of training is screaming at them.
So what does she do yesterday?? SHE SPENDS 500 ON A FULL GROWN GREAT DANE!! Because she can breed her in the spring don't you know? And ask ridiculous amounts of cash for unpapered pups.
Plus, I find out her new 'do, the extensions, perm and dye job....cost 800! And she is putting the trailer up as collateral to get a 5000 loan. She spent 1300 in the last month on shit. She could just not make stupid spending decisions and have that 5000 saved in four months!
She was whining they have no food. Well, I'm sure feeding your son is more important then a hair job or a dog! And she doesn't take her kid anywhere because that would mean leaving the dogs kenneled for even longer. So her son pays for it all.
And right now the govt gives her 400 a month to pay me for child care. I watched my nephew 150 hours last month. Once she files taxes that amount WILL drop, but she better not think she can get away with paying me less. 500 is my usual rate, I cut her a deal at 400 because at the time she really couldn't afford the extra 100 out of pocket.
Phew, just a BIG rant since I'm incredibly angry about it all and have no one to rant to!
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