relative peace

I have reached a peaceful spot. I hope it's the calm AFTER the storm not before the storm.I don't think ddmom realizes when DSS closes the case, she will no longer have an attorney and will have to pay to go back to court to get visitation and/or custody. I guess maybe I'm the one whose out of touch with reality. Maybe she IS happy with me having him, and her not having to do anything she doesn't want to do. That includes working and supporting him. Maybe she really is happy just coming over every day. She doesn't have to pay daycare. She doesn't have to buy diapers. She doesn't have to tussle with health insurance issues. She can pretty much see him as much as she wants, so whats the downside? I would never have been satisfied with not having my children. If the only thing standing between me and my kids was a job I would do anything to get that job. She keeps talking about getting him back, but she hasn't followed through with being able to support him. Now she's pregnant again, and I just can't see her ever being able to support 2 kids, especially with her fiance's inability to keep a job, or get a decent one. How blind am I ? if she wasn't happy with the current situation she would change it right? Court is in just 9 days and at least I will be done with DSS. At least until December, when the next is born. I swear if she doesn't pay child support after September for 6 months I will terminate her rights.