really?

I don't know what's up. All of the sudden he comes home for the past few nights...like someone told him it is not in his best interest to stay away....? Curious.
So this morning he comes out all nice saying hello and asked if he could have a cup of my coffee. Unfortunately, I retorted with "I don't own it." That pissed him off. Then we proceed to argue. I told him, every time that I give you a cup of coffee it sits, or I get an answer like "I'm good" then I say one thing and he gets mad. I get the same "I'm good" when I ask if he is hungry and would like dinner, etc.  He told me not to worry about breakfast, lunch or dinner anymore and I said fine I won't.
Tomorrow is my 23rd wedding anniversary.