People you feel are supposed to love you hurt you in the the end the most!

Well, I wasted two days feeling like I was doing something out of the kindness of my own heart for my Mom.... each and every time I feel like I'm overreacting about how she treat my Brother and I.... I am proven to be correct.
 
Well, yesterday took me 3 hours to find a German Shepherd Rescue Agency for my Moms 1 year old puppy that my Brother's girlfriend talked him into buying since she was not allowed a fourth dog at her home. She assumed the dog was hers and would live and be paid for by my Mom.... which my mom was mad about and set things straight that it would not be her dog. But, in the end the dog should never been brought there... they are not a "dog family" work work work or running around.... the poor thing was bored and untrained. So, I told my Mom I would help her cause the dog needed a home that she deserved to be trained and payed attention to. Walked everyday.... she had been trying herself and had no luck.... so, 3hrs and i did it then later yesterday night another 3hrs setting up a time to meet and have the dog transported to her new foster home in tucson AZ. 
So, today I got up at 6am set everything up for my kids in case the lady was late.... up and out of the house by 9:45am and at y Mom's by 10am... Her and my Brother were getting ready to leave. they left at 10:30am and I had my boys at her kitchen breakfast bar area eating breakfast. I washed her dishes by hand... situated the old one on the couch to watch Fraggle rock with the 6 month old Lab. while I made sure the little one did not fall from the bar stool...
The woman came at 11:09am it took 12 minutes to get the dog in the car.... she's a year od but, she is hugeeeeeeeee! Went inside got things ready to go, let the puppy outside to do both her business... then I locked the door and left at 11:27am.
 
 
Apparently the puppy was bad and push my Mom's room open and pulled out a lot of items including all her stuff toys and strung them all over the home. They had left both bathrooms open and she had gotten in to the t.p as well ect ect. So, when they finally got home at 9pm (keep in mind this dog doesn't use the bathroom in the house and has food and water and free roaming rights) they assumed I was snooping in their rooms. First I lived with them for 23 of my 29 1/2 years of my life 3 of them in that home. They have not to snoop about.... but, I missed her call ad it went to voicemail and I could hear 5 minutes of them talking about e that I must have snooped and there better not be anything chew up or damaged that what did i snoop.... my Brother seemed to fuel it that he knew all doors were shut... they were not cause the cat was in there sleeping in one of the bathroom. My Mom's was shut but, more than likely it was not shut enough to have clicked shut. For one thing this is not the first.... when the shepherd was 5-6 months old my Brother did the same thing... swearing he shut all the doors and the dog chewed up all kinds of stuff. He just loves to blame and point fingers cause he's the biggest snoop!!! But, I text my Mom back not to call me for a few days that I was mad and she was being phony and lying when she text back that she was joking and took it out of context that she didn't say what I said she said..... funny.... when I can hear every word clearly and what she is saying was never said. So, now her texts seem like she is covering herself because she was caught lying to me. Then last one said SORRY over and over and over. I will not accept her sorry. It's a lie.... snooping.... why the hell would I snoop.... what the hell is there to snoop for or about...  people who accuse like that are people who would do it and that's why they react like that. I honestly told them they both need to grow up and stop being phony that I tell people to their face. I don't lie and they know that. That I wasted 2 days doing something to help for them to both bad mouth me behind my back and get caught doing it..... It hurt so much that they are so buddy buddy and go get tattoos together and she pay for it while he does nothing for her. She ask him over and over to do something and he doesn't do it but, I do things without asking and I haven't lived at home for 7 years. But, I will not shed a tear over again how much I feel so unloved by my Mother lately.  I don't know I just feel that way.... there are so many more stories over the last 10 years that support that....