People treat you different with a loss in your life - it's unfair
People treat you differently when you lose someone special in your life. I am a widow now. I am not a man eater. I am finding some people are not so close since I lost Smokey. I am not after any one's man. I am not after the husbands. I suddenly became dangerous because I am a widow now. It just does not make sense to me. I feel these people pulling away. These I are not the people I am close to so it does not make such a big dent in my life. I still have the people that I am close to in my life. Is anyone else a widow and are you being treated different because you are a widow? I would be interested in finding out.