Panic and daughter drama

She called crying asking to come stay with me for a few days. She wouldn't say why "can't talk about it right now" I have gotten that answer so many times the past few years. She has a few staples: You don't get it, I can't look for a job, what good will it do??, You don't know what I am going through. On and on. I told her if she couldn't tell me what the problem was then she couldn't stay here. She has not done a damn thing to better her situation. She finally got insurance but she hasn't taken the time to pic out a doc, she is supposed to go to 4 therapy sessions in a row before she gets a psych appointment. She keeps missing sessions. She is not on meds anymore except the ones she gets from her BF.
 
The call freaked me out. Tailspin, panic, meltdown. I emailed tdoc then tried deep breathing. I was still in full out panic so 10 minutes later I call his emergency line. It has been over an hour I am calmer tho my chest still hurts and I can feel my heart pound. He hasn't called back yet.
 
Too much drama at work, trying to move and she tries to come back. I am so scared to let her back in. It was so bad with her here.