One example of Negative coments
I just got yet another mesage from some one. this time saying that my profile did noting for him. That was fine as it may not at this time do any thing to elp some folk. It cant be expected to.. I ave not been though every single thing that every one on eart as been through ect& like wise but who knows the future? One day my profile may meansomething to folk like tat person who comented onit that way, Things can happen in the next 5 minutes. Yet again you may know or one day meet some one & fide my profile has relevent bits & meaning ect to them. & so on. The person who sent the coment also abruptly said dont contact him again. He as that right but what an atitude. Could he not ave said thanks any wayI will keep it in mind should i or any one ever need it ecr?. There are ways of saying things. It is called using tact ect. If this DS is for people to suport people Then all un needed coments like that & te way it was worded ect should not be accepted by any one even the folk who run this DS. I do understand why he may have out it as he did as I look at all sides of all things not just the one as if i had TUNEL vision.. On a good note I have had many folk say my profile has elped them. Oters ave said it is inspirasional ect. So in a way it does not matter if it does not help one person ect or at least now. One out of many. We cant please every one but some of us do try. One more thing I must add. The person who made the negative coment could have at lest said thank you for trying to help. Maners cost nothing. Its not like Im going up to folk wanting to know all about them & iounding tem ect in person or by letter or phone. I have heard it said tat if you do some thing bad you get all the wrong kind of recognisiuom from all over but if you do some thing good you dont get the recognision you deserve. Some one for xample who has done wrong but is clearly trying to do good also needs the rigt kind of recognision encoragement & suport. Some of tem who dont get it end up tinking what is the pint of trying to do good & they go atray again but thay get more grief from others. That is just an added coment. Live & let live . Some animals treat each other better than some humans do.
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Please do not feel bad. Some people have so many issues that they need to release their anger. I am so sorry that they did this to you. That is very unfair.
There are so many others on DS that are extremely supportive. Try not to let the comments of that person sour you on DS.
I would not worry about negative comments like this. Some people really are so hurt they just aren\'t in the mood for manners. I think we can all understand that.
I find people here so supportive. Just focus on that. Even a just a few words of kindness carries me through the day. I hope you can find solace in that.
My motto is take the good and take out the bad, Just like the trash....:)
It\'s always good to focus on positive people and supportive individuals who care no matter what issues they have on their plate.
Have a great day!
There are a few on here like that. Just try not to let them get to you. They are angry and ignorant people. They probably were taught no manners. This is a place for healing and not negativity. Big hugs to you and keep writing. carolyn
Don\'t let it upset you...just pray for that person, ask the good lord to forgive him for his rudeness. You are here trying to help,support and comfort others and this person tries to bring you down just because they have issues. Let it go, don\'t get upset! One day your profile will suit this guy and he will apologize to you. keep your head up!
hi...dont even let that get to ya..if a negative respond comes about just ignore it..Just the devil talking. God knows your love and how much you care so dont let it stick in your mind..You are too blessed to let something like that turn you away from others here in DS. You are in my prayers..Those who dont understand are just un educated about the matter..love ya..hxhx
Please don\'t let negative people get to you. You will always come across people who are angry and bitter. We can\'t control what they do, only the way we choose to react to it. So chalk it up to them having a problem, not you. Take care sweetie. You write what you want to write and if it helps some people wonderful and if not, there has been no harm no foul and you get lots of credit for trying. That makes you a very caring person and you should feel good about that sweetie. Take care. Val
you didnt need that person in your life, brush it aside and move on Have a great day
That is what makes this world what it is not everybody thinks the same and act the same but atleast u can treat others as u want to be treated but that is not going to happen in this world so we just need to ingnore and pray for the idiots....Hang in there, there are more postive people on this site than negative...Hugz Vic
I just thought it was too long. The profile should be a short summary of what your about. Record the details in your journal.
I liked reading your profile.....remember we are not all like that person. I have found nothing but genuine love and comfort from all the people on DS. Keep up the good work and take care of yourself...Hugs...Kim
It doesn\'t matter whether they connected or not you reached out and that is a great thing to do. Not many people do that. My hat is off to you. Way to go!
sorry you tried to talk to someone like that but there are alot of good people on her that are willing to chat with...dont let it get you down...after all you are the top hugger