oh G-d, what happened?

today is 24 October 2008my jessy passed away on 24 April 2008 today is 6 monthsit feels like it was yesterday - that dreaded trip to the cemetaryit felt like such a long drive..... .... almost like i JUST got home im not really depressedbut i dont want to see people, make conversationi just dont know i just think of my jessy,her life, her joy, our love,and i just think Oh my G-d, what happened to us?!! 

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I so understand... I actually hide in the tub one day until the person left my door!!!!! I seriously think I need to maybe get some help...but I just don\'t want to be social or to make small talk! WE HAVE TO DO WHATEVER GETS US THROUGH THE MOMENT, HOUR OR DAY! Sending you hugs, Vera
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What you are feeling is perfectly normal..which really makes it very abnormal...just take each second, minute, hour, day as it comes & do what you need to do to make it through NOT what others think you should be doing...you have suffered the greatest lost ever - you have every right to your feelings...the 6 month anniversary of Billy\'s death was my 50th b\'day - luckily everyone honored my wishes that I wanted NO celebration - how could I even think of celebrating??? Hugs, Ann
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i\'m praying things get easier as time goes. take it minute by minute. love and hugs, meg