notes

Since healing I have been going through the process of


learning to manage and be self responsible as I have mentioned before.

 

I also know that lately I have been feeling kind

of wobbly when it has come to thinking about possible big changes

in addition to the vision of leading an independent life.

 

I am starting to turn that thought around and so I am seeing my need and want for some

socializing and fun too - supplemental type stuff.

I am seeing that example of some friends on Facebook, it's inspiring..

and maybe I can lift the pressure I see and just 'live a little' -- simple pleasures for sure.

 

On one side of things I have been very much needing

my family's attention when it has come to leading my life.

I suppose it's because I rely them so much for the essential

support in my life.

 

Now I am finding that I need to make my own way

towards finding socializing and fun in my life on my own like I said - and

not be so dependent on my family's attention YET

I still need to do things smartly/responsibly for my life. 

So maybe I can ask myself amidst those pursuits that are fun if it's always so

good for me to go to an extreme? or if it's a smart thing to do? Developing

independent conscience.

 

Tonight I'm going to mass at St. Max's at 5pm.

I'm definitely going to Los Robles tomorrow at sunrise.

King Gillette Ranch today was awesome.

 

Have a great weekend!

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malibumark
malibumark

like maybe it's a better use of my time to venture out rather
than splitting hairs or focusing on what would be the absolute perfect thing
to do.
Community LeaderMid
Mid

Stop, pause, breathe, and repeat until you are relaxed, calm, and peaceful clear headed.

When you are in the midst of a valued perspective opening change, take the time to enjoy the moment of choice. It will help you to see how balanced you are with your body and brain.

Here's to your success!
malibumark
malibumark

Thanks mid!
arfie
arfie

venturing out is a far better use of your time than splitting hairs or focusing on what would be the absolute perfect thing to do. i'll bet dollars to wishes that god thinks we're just adorable when we agonize over our quaint concepts of perfection.

perfection lives right next door to that global norm. let me know when you find the address. i'll swing by to oogle on one of my adventures.
malibumark
malibumark

thanks arfitabonita!