not the best day

went to therapist, learned I was just an accessory, and I am a very bad one.  where does that leave me?  worthless.   Wife wants the person she married, not me.  what am i now that is different?  I'm was an accessory then , and I am now.   feeling pretty much like shit.  Therapist pointed out it's like I'm trying to be mother theresa/ martyr and I'm bad at it, so I'm more like spoild garbage.
 
don't get me wrong, my therapist is very asute and awesome, but I don't see where I can take this information.