Not So Good
I know it's been a long time since I updated. Geo and I are going through this major change in our relationship and I'm trying my best to fix it. I told him I wasn't attracted to him. I didn't know how to express that, though, so that's what I told him. What I meant (after talking with a good friend) is that I am lacking in emotional attachment, not physical. I was talking to my therapist about it and she told me to just outright tell him without thinking it through. I was stupid. Now Geo is avoiding me for the most part and I don't blame him. I love him to death and didn't mean to hurt him. I just didn't know what I was doing.
Oh, this funny thing happened to me last Friday as I was at the bus stop waiting for the bus. A car pulled up in the parking lot behind me and waved me over. I thought he was lost, so I went over to him. He started flirting with me and then asked me if he could ask me a question. He asked me if my boobs were real and I said yeah. He said he couldn't believe it, but if I wanted to I could make lots of money with him. He never said how, or how much, but I just found it funny that I'm getting a proposition while waiting for a bus. I guess I'm prettier than I thought.
Oh, this funny thing happened to me last Friday as I was at the bus stop waiting for the bus. A car pulled up in the parking lot behind me and waved me over. I thought he was lost, so I went over to him. He started flirting with me and then asked me if he could ask me a question. He asked me if my boobs were real and I said yeah. He said he couldn't believe it, but if I wanted to I could make lots of money with him. He never said how, or how much, but I just found it funny that I'm getting a proposition while waiting for a bus. I guess I'm prettier than I thought.
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Awwwww I am so sorry you and Geo are going threw a rough time... its so difficult relationships are. Does Geo or is he willing to go talk with you to your therapist? This might not be an option but i just thought it might help to have someone with you when you are trying to explain your feelings so he is understanding what you mean and not taking things the wrong way. I know you love him a bunch but sometimes in a relationship things just get hmmmmm i guess the word im thinking of is ... comfortable and it feels like we are not attracted to the other person anymore and its something to work threw to get back the old feelings.
Ohhhh my goodness guys some times are inappropriate! Hahaha to be propositioned by a complete stranger is a mood booster for sure but be careful guys like that might not always be safe type of person. Hes lucky it was you at the bus stop cause if it would have been me i probly would have wanted to slap him for asking such a personal question LOL
I am sorry geo took what you said so bad and is avoiding you. I know how much you love him but love sometimes isn\'t quite enough, other feelings come into play. I think your friend was right about the emotional side. g2g had a good idea, maybe geo would go or I hope at least talk to you once he calms down. you have a right to your feelings and the way to a good relationship is to be open and communicate how each other feel. I hope things get better for you. wow, at the bus stop, who would figure. the guy sounded like he wanted more then just saying that about your chest, be careful, but it is a compliment none the less and you are pretty. hugss
Oh I hope you get things fixed with Geo. The guy at the bus stop sounds dangerous to me!
The guy at the bus stop also offered me a ride home. There was no way I was going to get into his car. And this was before the boob thing.
Ohhhh Larissa that sounds sorta dangerous! Definitely stay a distance from that guy and maybe i would if possible go to a different bus stop , not sure if it would be close enough to switch to a different bus stop? And might be a good idea to carry something like pepper spray or something just incase. I just get a bad gut feeling about this guy :( BE CAREFUL!
I don\'t like this guy either, he sounds like bad news. bring something to protect yourself with and change bus stops if you can. hugss
Don\'t worry, I\'m going to be safe. I\'m taking my insurance company\'s transport service so I don\'t have to take the bus. So I wait in the nice, cool office instead of out at the bus stop.
that is soooo dangerous. sounds like a perv larissa.
as far as geo goes. you should definitely talk to him. most couples are emotionally attached and then the physical interest wanes. for you, you are physically interested, but feel emotionally distant?
i\'m 38lbs by the way. xxoo
I hope things get better between you and Geo. It\'s a shame that he feels bad and doesn\'t realize what you meant. I hope you get a chance to tell him.
That man at the bus stop sounds like a pervert. Maybe, he does adult films??? whatever it is stay away .. you know that. there are so many strange people out there. Since, nothing bad happened you can look back and laugh at him . Feel good that he complimented you.