Not as bad, but still feeling horrible

I had a nightmare last night. Asked him to sleep on the bedroom floor. 
I cried all day yesterday. Took in the mood elevators, and slept. Today I woke up not crying. I dint cry all morning. I'm making another list of MY CONDITIONS that he has to follow. 
I decided so I will just live a life by myself, and him do everything. I got ready for work. He packed my breakfast and lunch. I saw he forgot his keys, but i'm not going to remind him cos ITS NOT MY RESPONSIBILITY ANYMORE. He has to run the show now if he wants to save the marriage. 
I plan to get rid of all the things, and buy new ones. I want to re-arrange the furniture.
I have decided I will not buy anything for him anymore. He doesn't deserve it after he took off the wedding ring I gave him.
I ordered books for him to read on relationships. If he reads and follows them, then I'll know he really wants to save this marriage. If he doesn't or makes excuses, then it means that what ever he is doing now is just a show.
Today is the second session of counseling.