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I've been having a lot of problems with Geo lately, I asked him if he wanted me to wash all his clothes and he started yelling at me for no reason. I know he can be loving and caring (my phone was on my chair while I napped and he plugged it in for me to charge) but he yells a lot too. I know he's in a lot of pain... I went through the same thing with my dad. I guess women do really marry their fathers. I know he loves me, and he has never hit me. Just yelling, punching the wall, throwing things (not in my direction) and the like. I know it's emotional abuse. He would rather leave me than go to anger management. I asked him that, and he said he would rather be without me. I'm depressed and yes he does help with some things but it's hard when he's in a lot of pain. My mom's husband is going to Texas for 5 weeks for a job, and I think I will use that as a trial separation. It hurt so bad to type that. I can't type anymore.
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Toxic relationships are hard...its a constant roller coaster. I wish you the best
you know how i feel larissa, and i feel so bad for you, i hate seeing you hurting. emotional abuse is as bad as physical, but it is a very hard cycle to get out of. we tend to let the nice things remove the bad, but it is like walking on eggshells. i am here for you as always. this is very hard, take his words to heart, what does that really tell you? i think the 5 weeks away will be good for you, time to get perspective outside of living home. it will be difficult but we are survivors, never forget that. love and hugs
I'm sorry you are going threw this. Visiting with your mom and seeing how things go maybe the best thing. You did great while Geo was away. You can't tell me that he was this nasty when he was away can you? He must have been in pain then too. He was staying with his friend right. Do you think that person would put up with his attitude? Think about that . See how you feel what you want and need. You have to be good to yourself too. I know it's hard. My husband yells too. (pain for him his awful)
hope it all works out for you. i'm 38lbs but i never got a link so i finally was able to get in as a new registration, in the beginning i couldn't do that either, it didn't work. no idea why.
visiting with your mom and getting away from it all is a great idea. hope it goes well. the photo on your avatar is very pretty. can people post photos on here or is that feature gone as well?