No god damn respect!
What the hell is wrong with people in this world! So I was couped up inside all day yesterday but feeling good, later on that evening I decided I needed to get out of the house and go for a drive. I drove around for about 20 minutes and decided to go visit my favorite aunt who is only 5 years older than me which makes her real easy to talk to. We talked about my surgery and how I was doing and how work was going, a pretty normal conversation. Then my stbx came up and my aunt starts to tell me that my ex has been showing up to my family's restaurant with that little punk ass kid she now calls her boyfriend, what a fucking bitch! It pisses me off that she has no fucking respect for me or my family by doing that shit. She was around my family for 8 years and to pull that is complete bullshit, we've only been split up 2 months and to be parading him around like that around my family is utterly uncalled for. I wish I would have known then what a piece of trash I was getting myself involved with. I would never disrespect anyone that way, maybe I'm just naive to think that everybody has values like mine.
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It is her way of getting your attention. She wants to flaunt what she has, and wants to keep twisting that knife in your heart. Sadly, hardly anyone these days has good values or morals. Sadly though, as much as it sucks, unless your family refuses to serve her, which they are well within their rights to do, there isn\'t much that can be done. She sadly has as much right to be there as anyone else, and while it hurts, also remember that she has moved on and is doing the new life thing too. With her however, she has already processed what you have, and has moved on, even if it isn\'t someone worthy. I\'m sorry you had a rough night, but it will get better. Best advice I can give is to try and not let her get under your skin. I know it is far easier to say then do, but try. I struggle with it too, so I understand.
So, I went through a period when I needed to hear others talk about how crazy and wrong my stbx was. I don\'t want to step out of line, but you ex is not a very nice person anymore. A day will come when the pain will go away and you will be soooooo much better off. With a loving partner who helps you smile not cry.
@Tony- You are not out of line at all and calling her not a nice person is putting it lightly, I like to call it like I see it, she\'s turned into a cold blooded heartless bitch! I just miss the companionship, coming home from a long day of work knowing someone was waiting for me. Everyday is getting easier on letting go and I know eventually I\'ll find someone who will value and respect me like I should and give me the family that I long for. It\'s so damn lonely though, I do have friends and family but it\'s not the same, know what I mean?