New Years Day

My brother calls and asks if I am going over to my sisters. I tell him I go over for dinner on Wednesday. Today as you might know is Tuesday. but he informs me that she is expecting me to come over tonight. and that he is going to cook the ham he bought for Christmas and never got around to cooking and make dinner. It is somehow a special dinner, he informs me in a sickeningly sweet voice that turns my stomach.
Why? what is special about it. It is special because he is making it and everything he does he thinks is special. He checks on my sister sometimes more than she would like and he keeps going over there to do his laundry which she hates but is too afraid to do anything about. I visit twice a week and have dinner with her and we go to church together. but somehow because he is going to make dinner it is a special dinner.
I wanted to say no but it is ham and mash potatoes and I like ham and mash potatoes so I said I would come. I pray that he isn't going to be stressful. He has been acting better around me but he still gets on my nerves or I am on a sensitive nerve around him or both. But last time I told him he was bothering me, the phone calls last journal entry my sister told me that after he got off the phone he cussed at me and yelled about me for it basically behind my back and it bothered her.
Ok, other than that, it has been ok for me and I am still hoping to get the estate settled finally so my brother doesn't have a melt down and ruin it for all of us. I'l be calling our lawyer later this week after the holiday break and see what is going on.