New years eve

New Years Eve......I went out with 3 couples..... because he plays in a band... and he was playing somewhere.. and I sooo wasnt gonna stay home...  so my friends come to pick me up.. and come to find out.. that my girlfriends husband, has a friend, who was gonna be alone for new years... so he invited him along... thinking like men do.. not about how that would "look".. to other people.. or my hubby sooooooooo.. we all go out to dinner...the girls sat with the girls and the guy's sat all together...  had a nice meal... came back to town.. we all went to the bar.... I drove myself... and we stayed to 12 and then went home.. and I went to bed...(I wanted to be sleeping before he got home)   I think I had 1 glass of wine and two beers not a biggie right?  didnt even talk to this guy all night....  soo went to sleep on the couch...  he comes home after playing... 2 in the morning.. he turns on the LIVING ROOM light .. and wants to argue with me... I mean WTF?   I have been sleeping OVER a hour... and starts the whole deal-e-o of yelling.. at me..  then leaving the room cause I dont respond back to him.. and then coming back in the living room turning on the light and doing in again like 3 mintues later.. cause he still has stuff to say... jesus...  so that went on for like 20 min to 1/2 hour... seriously .... I was like dude... u are crazy... he finally goes to bed.... well then of course I CANT sleep cause I am upset.. and scared he was gonna come and freak out on me again..... so I was up till 4 430 or so.. FINALLY fall sleep only to wake up to him AGAIN turning on the light .. waking me up.. its like 9 am.... telling me go get the kids (FROM HIS MOMS HOUSE)..  of course I got up..  and proceeded to get ready to get my girls...just because I was sick of getting yelled at calling my friends.. whores, and that I of course..... was now cheating with this guy.. that I didnt even talk to...ughhhhhhhh so go get my kids... come home and he is gone.... all day I wait around.. tense.. waiting for him to come in and start in on me again....  He stays gone all day I put the girls to bed at 740 p.m. cause they were up till 11 pm at grandmas the night before.. and they were super crabby he gets home..at 750 pm and goes into my 6 years olds room and gets her out of bed.. saying she doesnt have to go to bed yet. WTF?   then proceeds to go into the kitchen where I am doing the dishes... and he makes something for himself to eat...  while yet agin arguing with me.. about the same DAMN thing...  I mean I can only say it soo many damn times.. and shit he never lets me explain.. or talk.. Then of COURSE he tells me ..I AM the crazy one.. of course I am the bitch.. of course I am at fault.. cause I started this whole thing 3 months ago... So of course tells me to move out if I dont love him anymore.. which I proceed to tell him.. ur right I dont love the guy u are .... I said.....  just soo u know if I go.. so are my kids.. so which he responds...  See my family told me not to marry u.. told me u were fucked up in the head...  I was like.. ok.. hmmmm let me call ur mom and ask her that question...  I call his mom.. cause at this point I am sooo sick of his damn shit and getting accused of something I didnt even have control over...  She tells me of course they never said that..  But which he freaks out more.. cause "i told" someone something about our fight....  (REMEMBER he has my daughter in the next room)  sooo I hang up with her...  and I put my daughter BACK to bed...  and then which he proceeds to say rude comments everytime I walk past him...  ughh my lord... soo I bet tonight... he wont come home... which good for me....  but jesus..... this shits getting old ... a person can only take so much ... of the same old shit............... the same old fights