Need Advice
I just wanted to know if anyone out there had trouble in their house. I hate my house don't want to go home but it shouldn't be that way because Luis loved it there but I can't stand it. I do anything not to go home. When will I like living here again? Can anyone please shed some light on this all I want to do is move I know I should wait a year but it's 2 months and I can't take it. It's so sad and frustrating.
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Try making small changes. I actually moved my bed into what was our living-room.
Repaint some walls and move the furniture around. Get new curtains, even cheap ones, just to make it your home, not our home. Even new kitchen tablecloth and different things sitting on your livingroom tables makes a difference. My husband died in our room, I couldn\'t sleep there again. I don\'t agree with moving permanently right now. I know how much the empty house hurts. Coming home alone is horrible, but you\'re pain will go with you if you move and you could be sorry. Sharon
I agree with Sharon. Make some small changes that will help you cope right now. A major move is something you have to think about with a clear head. I changed the sheets, comforter and curtains in the bedroom. I bought a few new sticks of furniture at Ikea and just generally made a nest for myself...just for me. It is HARD, but stay with it..you will take your small steps forward. Wishing you load of strengh and support, Cindy xxoo