My relationship status is now complicated...
My wife left me for another man.
No, that is not what I'm supposed to say. I'm supposed to say that we agreed on a trial separation and that she is traveling to be with friends and family.
Which is partially true, I suppose. We did agree on a trial separation. Although with her moving out to live with another man, it seems that the trial's outcome depends more of the outcome of that relationship than our own.
And I did decide it was time to move on. I would have wanted to try marital consoling, but that seemed pointless with her being in another relationship.
So here I am. In DS again. Not depressed so much as reaching out.
Sometimes it gets lonely being alone.
No, that is not what I'm supposed to say. I'm supposed to say that we agreed on a trial separation and that she is traveling to be with friends and family.
Which is partially true, I suppose. We did agree on a trial separation. Although with her moving out to live with another man, it seems that the trial's outcome depends more of the outcome of that relationship than our own.
And I did decide it was time to move on. I would have wanted to try marital consoling, but that seemed pointless with her being in another relationship.
So here I am. In DS again. Not depressed so much as reaching out.
Sometimes it gets lonely being alone.
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I am sorry you are feeling so alone.
But, you are right, we are here for you and you will never be alone.
I bet you have many friends here. And even though we have never talked, I wish you only the best always.
Please concider me a friend,
Sandy
yeah, no one like to be alone. I guess it\'s just who we are.
It\'s been a long road you\'ve travelled with your wife and no doubt. I AM sorry to hear this is where it has ended up. I do trully believe though that perhaps now YOU can begin to heal some, which can open the door to new people and happiness, which you truly deserve.
I\'m glad you\'re here, Alphons.
You\'re the priority now.
Eat. Pray. Love.
Maybe it is just that simple.
Hugs,
Bridget
Been there.
Use your time and space to learn about being Alone, and about Alphonsus (not that you were asking for advice - jsut saying that is what worked for me).
We\'re behind you friend!
No words.....Just hugs.
I\'m sorry that it has come to this. I know it has been a long hard time for you. I know you can get through this. Lean on us here for all you need.
Hugs to you my friend!
Tell people what you want to tell them. The truth will come out sooner or later.
Gentle hugs.
I am sorry to read this...albeit rather tardy.....
what a big assed bummer. All I can say is.....if this is how she deiceds to beahve.....you\'ll be better off knowing now than later.
sometimes that\'s all we have....please know that you\'ll be ok, there is life after this. We are here. {{{{hugs}}}}