My life SUCKS
I was just served with papers. N, my late husbands EX wife is suing me for everything. She wants me to give all the money I got as life insurance when my husband died (a paltry amount, less than half of what is owed on the house) to her daughters and she wants the value of the difference between that and the amount of life insurance my late husband was SUPPOSED to have left for his girls, which could only be gotten either through my paying it (which WHAT???) or by selling the house -- and there is not enough equity in the house anyway! She also wants, if there is not enough money to reach the goal of the stated life insurance he was supposed to have left, that I pay that difference out of whatever I have or my own earnings. I am TERRIFIED I am going to lose EVERYTHING I have. I am so scared. . I cannot take this anymore. I hate this. I hate my life. I hate this. My mom is in the hospital recovering from surgery for an ulcer and I feel like I am going to wind up there as well, but my whole stomach is going to be one big ulcer. Further to that the stated date for a hearing is ON MY BIRTHDAY!!! What a shitty year I am having. SHIT SHIT SHIT His kids are such shitheads, he ex is a shithead. I cannot believe how NASTY everyone is. I feel like every day I wake up and more shit gets thrown at me. I want to sleep and never wake up. UGHUGHUGHUGH
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I am sorry to hear what you are going through especially as this time. Just take time to breathe. Hope things work out. Hugs Linda
Rachel, I have to ask what your lawyer says about all this? It just doesn\'t sound right to me. I get the part about her wanting the life insurance if that was something he owed and the money is there, but how can you be held accountable for money you didn\'t know about, didn\'t agree to, and don\'t have? Why would she be allowed to take your house? This simply does not make sense! Nor does it make sense that she could have a claim on your earnings - you weren\'t married to her! I am so sorry you are going through all this and will pray that this works out in a way that is just; she shouldn\'t be allowed to get away with this! laurabp
I am so sorry that you have to put up with all this crap. It is bullshit. Try not to think of the big picture (which is probably hard) but only of small steps of what is coming up next. It must be overwhelming and scary!! Shit, I have no words. : (
Geez, dont\' these people have anything better to do than harass you in your time of grief? You don\'t owe them diddly and I am shocked that any attorney would even take it on. I keep waiting for that shoe to fall with my own SIL, and wondering when they will ask me for things that belonged to US, not \"their family\".
I am sorry this is dragging you down. How can you heal at all with all the BS? You are stronger than you realize to just keep dealing with it all.
It doesn\'t help to hear it but you are right, they are jerks and this is shitty.
susan