my life since then

I'm not great lately. The ex is officially out of my life since feb and although i cant be more at peace with that, my life has been sucking. between more guys messing with my mind, 4 pets dying, losing my job, losing some friends, and having a fall out between my and my sister and her husband - which now means i never get to see my nephew, Lucas, the one joy i had left. Its hard and I cant take much more. Considering all I went through with my ex, i thought i more than earned i little peace in my life. I guess not. My parents are also constanlty threatening to kick me out. while they [so far] never followed through, its still stressful to be constantly hearing it. I still struggle with not self harming, but have a pretty good handle on it. I miss the life I used to have, the little things as well. I've gone through alot of changes and I'm holding up well as I can, I guess this is growing up.

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LACat123
LACat123

Great to hear from you! I see that you have a lot going on. I am glad your ex is not so much a problem anymore, but am sorry for your other troubles. It is a lot to handle at one time! Here is some advice and encouragement: take it slow with guys- don\'t ever forget that you are a strong woman and act with confidence and men will treat you better. Never let anyone get away with crap in your life- you do NOT have to accept crap and you will not!
As for your sister, try to write her a letter or send a card trying to work out your differences. Let her and her hubby know how important they are to you and how you feel about your nephew. Take blame if you have to so you can re-establish a relationship with them since your nephew gives you so much joy. As for your parents- thank them for standing by you during your troubles with your ex and let them know that you are growing up- turning into a young woman and you are learning from your mistakes and trying to grow.

You will be fine! Be proud of yourself for every little accomplishment (like getting rid of and letting go of your ex) and stand tall. I am proud of you- keep it up!
pinkpumpkin143
pinkpumpkin143

growing up is deff rough especially when your out on ur own