my heart is breaking..

and it seems like my husband doesnt care.  he doesnt call me 2 c how im doing but he calls that chick....it hurts like hell.  he sd that he wasnt happy with me....that makes me question if theres something wrong with me.  i so want him 2 care.  i so want him 2 treat me like i wanna b treated....but he wont.  im torn between trying 2 convince him 2 treat me well and save our marriage and just getting a divorce....guess its obvious what the right choice is....i shouldnt have 2 convince someone 2 love me.... i called my therapist 2 make an appt. i need some help dealing with this.