MY goals scales
Hi all. You may wonder why my goals scales are not moving as they should concidering I am making friends on here at a daily baisis. The rearon may seam strange but its partly to do with the fact that some of us need to have friends we can meet ect.Yes in one way we have got to be carefull ect & DS gives us some protection that we would not have wen meeting folk in person. I know many on here are jenuine even in person. I also know it may not be posible for most of us to meet for relevent reasons like distances ect. Its ok wit me to have friends on ere & I am glad I am making so many. Thanks to all concerned. Some of you are sending me requests to join groups that you are in or running. Again I thank you for this. Its a good felling to be wanted. welcome. to be part of things & so on. Its apitt we cant some how do the good work we are doing on here but do it off line to to peole we know or meet ect. But again there are no go areas. We still ave to be carefull as to who we would help & suport ect apart from te few who like on here feel we have nothing to offer them. One day it might change but for now it is how it is there. Tere is the other side were folk who feel we cant elp them may be able to elp us. Some may not know it so dont bother to try. Oters may not know but are willing to try. That is the most we can do. (((is to try))) This may be something some of you have thought about or will do now that I ahve said it. If you have or do then this is not just a general profile as yit states but another inspirasion. I do hope so. Take care all.
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it would be nice to be able to meet people face to face. how are you today.
You\'re right, it would be nice to be able to meet people in person from here and other places. It\'s important to have friends that you can spend time with in person if it\'s possible. ***HUGS*** TAke care.
This is really the most interaction I have with people, I don\'t have many friends left. My best friend moves away. Most of the people I know are just so clueless about what I am going through that I cann ot relate to them much. You will not believe this, but it is the honest truth, I had one lady \"friend\" that said she knew just how I felt when my Paul died, because her house burned down last year! Was anyone killed? NO!injured, NO! I just walked away and told my husband that we had to go, NOW!, I was fixing to say some very bad words, and tell this person, I would burn, my house, everythin in it, my car, everything I own to have my baby back. What are these people? This DS is the only place that people \"get it\" for me. I mean my husband does, and my grand children, and family. Some close friends do. Most;y though the people that really understand are the ones whi have had a deep loss. I am not real outgoing, or good at meeting new people. So DS is very much a lifeline to me. Love, and prayers for you fruend. Peggy