My friend DH has his health issues to cope with and I am supporting him.
My former boyfriend and current friend is waiting for arm surgery scheduled for next year on February 25, 2014. Currently, he is undergoing tests for both colon and prostrate cancer for this Thursday in the hospital where they put a camera down his throat and up his rectum. They will give him something to pass out as he is deathly afraid of any kind of needles.
I am blessed with good health at the moment. We are all in that age bracket where we know people who have health issues or we have health issues ourselves. What a lucky age? We get wiser but our health deteriorates depending how we lived our lives.
I have many regrets. Before I woke up I was thinking how I could go back in time and advise myself out of some horrible things that I did and would that make any difference to my present circumstances. Who knows? We can't time travel and maybe that is a good thing.
Just a few thoughts and things I am going through is all and what about yourselves.
DB
I am blessed with good health at the moment. We are all in that age bracket where we know people who have health issues or we have health issues ourselves. What a lucky age? We get wiser but our health deteriorates depending how we lived our lives.
I have many regrets. Before I woke up I was thinking how I could go back in time and advise myself out of some horrible things that I did and would that make any difference to my present circumstances. Who knows? We can't time travel and maybe that is a good thing.
Just a few thoughts and things I am going through is all and what about yourselves.
DB
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I think we all go through the \"what ifs\" Especially after loss and even with years. It\'s probably good not to be able to change the past, or that is how I feel. So many things I have seen and been through that I thought were tragedies (and they were) I have seen turned to something good come to me that I didn\'t know then. It\'s complicated and I still desire the losses, but moving forward is the only choice we have. Sharon