my first entry
this is my first time on here and i just recently found out that my husband has been seeking advice here so i figured id do the same. my marriage has been destroyed by acts on both our parts and it is very difficult, for the both of us. i dont think i can put it all on here at one time but it sure would be nice to get some nonjudgmental advice or points of view from someone who has gone thru the same.my heart aches everyday for what we have both done and what we've lost
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It\'s all in the open, but would it be ok with you if he was going out with other women?
Until you stop seeing the om(other man) things will never get to where you want them.
You have to break it off with him, no contact whatsoever,, and certainly not spending the night . Sorry, you may not want to hear it and may get mad at the messenger (me) but its the truth whether you want to admit it or not.
as a matter of fact it would be fine with me if he went out with someone! i said i was done with the marriage, why he dont understand that ill never know. maybe he needs time and in time i hope he finds a good woman he wont turn away from. i made no bones about where my decisions are, he shouldnt either