My date today

...Was blah.... How do you know when you like someone? Why am I 22 and still asking this? How come I can't seem to find one single person out there that I like?
Blah...

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deleted_user
deleted_user

you had your date!! what did you not like about him?
deleted_user
deleted_user

did it rain?
deleted_user
deleted_user

Well what do you like in a guy?
Friend19
Friend19

idk... I just found myself wanting to go home and cuddle with my cat.
deleted_user
deleted_user

sounds like anxiety. did anything go wrong? was it awkward?
Friend19
Friend19

No, nothing went wrong... Just was blah
deleted_user
deleted_user

you going to be his friend?
Friend19
Friend19

No.
deleted_user
deleted_user

why?
Friend19
Friend19

Maybe, I don\'t know...
Itzjustme
Itzjustme

u\'ll find him! and when u do ull know
deleted_user
deleted_user

you wanna tell me all about how boys suck, wanna question your sexuality, question love, and what youre attracted to? you can make fun of guys... I dont mind. i make fun of women all the time. you should make a list of shit with links to their profiles. :D ill comment on it and we can be picky. come on! come on!!
deleted_user
deleted_user

I don\'t know! But fell like I have to comment, cause well I am ace :-P

I think it is hard, life is easy and without risk of being hurt when you are home cuddling your cat...

First off, do you actually want a relationship with anyone? If you don\'t you don\'t have to try.... if you do then what do you want from a relationship?

It is hard, but I think the cheesy sayings are true, that it turns up when you least expect it... honestly, rather than looking on dating sites and things, I\'d have a look for clubs or things you are interested in... join an art class? Then you can meet people as friends, get to know them and decide if you want to date without all the pressure of dating straight away....

Or if you don\'t want to do that, I\'ll say how I feel when I like someone... my anxiety increases, I think about them loads and imagine a future with them, I want to be around them and I find myself believing I can be happy....

At the start it is probably just lust and hope and sharing some kind of similarities that I feel can be built on, then it grows into love...

You will find it, you are an amazing person.