My confusion continues
okay so I have a good friend who is giving me an out. She said I could move 500 miles away and in with her and just live there get a job and live life. She is giving me until the end of June to make up my mind and I haven't told my fiancé yet. I don't think I am going to tell him at all. Is that bad? Sometimes I think my relationship is incredibly perfect and healthy and sometimes I think it shouldn't be a thing. We love eachother but maybe we are toxic? Maybe we are just in a tough situation and things will get better? I don't know. I'm so confused all the time.
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That does sound like a tough decision. That was nice of your friend to make that offer. Maybe your fiance would understand and help with the decision if you talked to him about it, I don't know. I think counseling or couple's counseling could help with figuring this out. If there's any toxicity in your current environment, it's natural to want to move from that. No pressure