Mothers day
Hi fans. It snice to remember Mothers day for mothers who are still alive but not much is said for mothers days When it comes to thoes who have passed on. Mothers day its self still goes on just the same so why cant it still go on for them who have passed on? Many do deserve it. The same can be said for fathers day. I still try to honor my mum & dad on such days by getting them flowers & putting them on my dads Grave & in a vase beside my mums Caskit. You na say why have I still got my mums caskect & not put her ashes to rest. Te answer simply is I cant bring my self to do it or at least not yet. I may have them put with me when I pass on . My mums wish originaly was we were to go beside my dad but due to circomstances out of our control it could not be done. I mean I could not grant my mum that request to be put beside my dad. She changed her will before she died an way. Te counil could not find whhere m dad was acurly laid as the paper work was out of date & almost un readable. My mum is one of many who deserves to still have a mothers day. My dad deserves to still have a fathers day. Im not sure when his birthday was but I still honer my mums & I add honer to him on that day too. Yes they dont get older as we who are left do but even birthdays still go on just like moters days so there is & should be NO wrong in onering them if or when you feel you can. The same goes for any familys birthday to who have passed on. Its anoter way to tell them we still remember them ect. Love & HUGS to you all.
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Your right on not forgetting those who have passed on and honoring them in anyway it great..I, thank God, have not had to do that yet with my own parents but I will allways remember them in one way or another...I hope you have a great mothers day and take time for you that day...Love and Hugz Vic
i am sorry for the lost of your mom. she must of been a hell of a woman.
[pardon my french] your right we should honor them and keep them in our prayers.
That is wonderful that you still honor your mom and dad. ***HUGS*** Take care.
I think it is great that you still honor your Mom on Mother\'s day
My Mom is 83 and still in pretty good health. I always get her a card on her birthday and mothers day. I try at Christmas, But she pretty much buys what she wants. My Daddy has been gone 16 years. I miss him everyday. I think of him everyday. He was a very big and important part of my life. I loved him. I was with him when He died. It was a very good experence for me, He was in pain and suffering. When he died, I said \"Thank God he finally stopped breathing!\" I was sad and cried but it was such a relief. I could see the pain and suffering leave his body. It was as if I could see his spirit rise and leave the shell of his body behind, He was at peace. It was a wonderful experience. It totallly changed my view on death.
I still miss him terrible. I try to tell every person that I care about and love, how I feel about the,. All the time. I try not to get angry over stupid little things! I take great comfort knowing that the last words me and my sons (both of them\'s) we spoke to each other, was, \"I love you son\" and \"I love you Mom\" These were always our last words even if we were mad at each other! I am the same way with my grand children, and husband, and so on! IT is so important that the words come from the very heart too! Prayers for you, and Love you friend! Peggy