Morning thoughts
One thing I’ve heard over and over again no matter who I’ve talked to is that, “this is a process and not something that will happen over night.”
so I understand that and I get it, but knowing that doesn’t seem to make it any easier. For me my mornings are the hardest time for. That’s the time when I have the most feelings and emotions running through me. But as the day goes along I feel better and better the more I keep my mind off her.
Now logically I know what to do, but emotionally I feel confused. So I’m battling between my heart and my mind. I know she’s not good for me, but I want her more than anything.
So my biggest challenge everyday is accepting and believing that she is not coming back and has moved on. And not blaming myself for the relationship ending.
I like what someone just told me, “don’t worry about tomorrow just make it through today.”
i also like a bible verse I just read:
Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to your life? Since you cannot do this very little thing, why do you worry about the rest?
So these are just my thought this morning
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New beginning, that horrible roller coaster ride of emotions. Just hang on. Just let those feelings come and they will go. Not talking to the ex is the best thing you can do. Just smile turn around and walk away. They do not deserve our time and attention. That will bother them more than anything else you can say or do.
Atpeacemary thank you for your kind words, and insight. It’s been 3 weeks almost since i’ve talked with my ex. I don’t think she’s coming back, or will call me again anytime soon. But I’ll keep what you said in mind. At the end of the day, I have to put me back together. So I’m glad I got this group for support, cause it is definitely helping.
My grandmother used to say you can't do anything about yesterday because it is gone and you can't do anything about tomorrow because it has yet to come so focus on the right now and make today the best you can! If there is a problem, fix what you can and give the rest to god! Keeping you in my prayers!