More phone calls
Today I spent a lot of time on the phone. i'm trying to get all the appointments in order so Geo can get his surgery. He was sitting next to me, and getting mad when I didn't interrupt the person talking with what he wanted to say. He got really mad and threw his book to the dining room. He also started punching his head- like hard. It's at times like this when I worry. He says he has never hit a woman, but he still has some violent behavior. I hope this goes away after surgery.. less pain, less stress.
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that sounds very scary and upsetting, and I am so sorry you are going through this. geo doesn\'t have a clue how lucky he is to have you doing all this leg work. I don\'t think I could put up with the behavior has he ever considered getting anger management? hugsss.
I think this is very difficult on both of you. Hes so fortunate to have you there by his side and helping to get all the appointments scheduled.... I go threw this will coordinating all of my husbands care and its not easy.... you are doing great and deserve a pat on the back very stressful stuff to deal with. How long is the recovery after the surgery is he going to need homecare help during that time? How long will he be in the hospital?
It\'s nice of you to make the appts for him. Why doesn\'t Geo make it himself so he can ask what he wants to ask? It is very scarey when someone around you gets so upset. I hope things have improved.
Geo hates talking on the phone. When I go to visit my mom, it\'s just a quick goodnight. I\'m amazed how when we were dating long distance that he spoke to me on the phone. I always have to call him, though. He says he doesn\'t want to bug me. So I make all his phone calls.
hugs my friend. Hope that when the surgery is over, he is better. He really needs to focus on what triggers those outbursts. Getting help would be a good thing for him and you.