Misstated remarks

Well had an interesting trip to MN.  Got to the farm and it was nice to see the in-laws.  Then we started discussing things and the discussion turned to my Tim's Harley.  They just don't understand why I'm keeping it.  I have my own and they stated you can only ride one.  I sometimes feel as if they are trying to erase him, they also thought it was odd that I didn't order new checks without Tim's name on them.  The motorcycle caused quite a discussion as my oldest Son was there.  My son stated that the motorcycle was something his father had worked hard for and was his pride and joy.  They think that I should sell it as money is a little tight.  Then my Son responded that if Mom needs the money then he and his brother would buy it to keep it in the family.  That caused them to state that there is no way that would work.  They feel people are to greedy to share an item.  Then they went on to elude to the fact that now that my Tim is gone they won't have to worry about who gets there Harley as they only have one other Son.  Needless to say I had to leave and had a little meltdown.  I know in my heart that they didn't mean it the way it sounded, but it did come out very cold.